As I walked into Whole Foods on Friday, I was stopped by a woman walking towards me. "Happy Mother's Day to You," she said, nodding down at my belly.
I was stunned.. my first thought, "But I'm not a Mom..."
And then it hit me... I AM a Mommy. I'm a Mommy to a 7lb Princess named Sammy -- an orange tabby who loves nothing more than to snuggle next to my belly and bounce while the baby kicks her. I'm Mommy to Baxter, an 18lb MOOSE (I mean kitty) who thinks he's part dog. And, most importantly, I'm Mommy to a 6lb Bug, rolling and kicking in my belly every day.
I make sure they are all fed and well-rested.. have regular visits to the doctor, and that they have plenty of play time. I keep them safe from harms way and protect them with my love and affection.
Yes, I am a Mommy... And it's only going to get better from here.
37 weeks! Can't wait to meet you, Baby Bug....!
Monday, May 10, 2010
Sunday, May 2, 2010
Dad's Advice
Well if you knew my Dad well in the least you'd know a couple of his favorite sayings. First, "Life isn't Fair" -- those were always his words when we complained how it wasn't fair that so-and-so got to do ABC and we didn't. But second was this, which my Mom reminded me of just yesterday: "Nice guys always finish last."
OK it's not like my Dad was Negative Nelly all the time, but those were two of his favorite comments which were always sparked by some sort of life incident that had happened to him. His life wasn't easy, and it turns out he wasn't far off on his wisdom. He was the man who did everything for everyone else and got no thanks in return... and... he left this earth at 51, which certainly wasn't fair. He definitely reminded us that life had it's curves, and we were going to have to face them.
33 years and some host of unfair situations later, I realize that it's not me that has come in last...It's their loss, and the gain of those people who are patient, loving, and supportive during the twists and turns life has to offer.
So this week, a GIANT Thank you to my incredible friends who showered me with a most generous baby shower -- full of wisdom, advice, gifts, and love. These are some of the most strong and dedicated Mothers, Wives, and Professionals I know... all of whom have supported me without ever judging... accepting me for who I am... and loving me for the faults that make me unique. Thank you ALSO to my coworkers who surprised me with an impromptu meeting all about Baby Bug... complete with tons of thoughtful and generous, GENEROUS gifts, and of course a yummy delicious cake to feed our fetish. (It wouldn't be a department get together without cake...) I am so fortunate to have these wonderful and kind folks surrounding me in my daily life.
So Dad, I hear ya. Life isn't fair. But sometimes, the good guy DOES finish first... it just takes awhile to realize it all.
OK it's not like my Dad was Negative Nelly all the time, but those were two of his favorite comments which were always sparked by some sort of life incident that had happened to him. His life wasn't easy, and it turns out he wasn't far off on his wisdom. He was the man who did everything for everyone else and got no thanks in return... and... he left this earth at 51, which certainly wasn't fair. He definitely reminded us that life had it's curves, and we were going to have to face them.
33 years and some host of unfair situations later, I realize that it's not me that has come in last...It's their loss, and the gain of those people who are patient, loving, and supportive during the twists and turns life has to offer.
So this week, a GIANT Thank you to my incredible friends who showered me with a most generous baby shower -- full of wisdom, advice, gifts, and love. These are some of the most strong and dedicated Mothers, Wives, and Professionals I know... all of whom have supported me without ever judging... accepting me for who I am... and loving me for the faults that make me unique. Thank you ALSO to my coworkers who surprised me with an impromptu meeting all about Baby Bug... complete with tons of thoughtful and generous, GENEROUS gifts, and of course a yummy delicious cake to feed our fetish. (It wouldn't be a department get together without cake...) I am so fortunate to have these wonderful and kind folks surrounding me in my daily life.
So Dad, I hear ya. Life isn't fair. But sometimes, the good guy DOES finish first... it just takes awhile to realize it all.
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